Click on me and I will take you to one of the Life Guides.
May they be greatly beneficial for you. Random Guide/Guru/GodBeing
"What happens happens…despite your best efforts. This is the truth of the matter. You are not in control of what happens - you think you are - and that is the heart of the problem. That is your ego, which believes it is the doer. It is not. You may be in control of some of your actions - but you are not in control of your life. Other people's actions and reactions affect your life. You cannot control the results of your actions. You can act - but after that it is all out of your hands. You can try - it is okay to try - but after that - what happens happens. Life is the way it is. When you don't accept this - you create misery. The source of the misery is the illusion that you are the doer. The truth is that you are not. Things happen. Those things are neither good nor bad. It is you who creates the value system to categorise things into good and bad. When you let go of all this - you automatically let go of blame. Your life is then no longer a struggle. The struggle is caused by you trying to make things happen as you want them to. Once you stop doing this - life becomes an adventure instead of a struggle."
"Truth is truth, no matter in which way it is arrived at. All paths lead to the same place. All religions have the same central theme. That theme is Enlightenment. There are many paths. They all ultimately lead to the same place."